At my sister’s engagement party, her fiancé snapped his fingers at me: “Hey, waitress, pour some more wine.” His mother chuckled, “At least she found a job that suits her.”

For 17 years, that had been the thing that made me smaller.

That night, for the first time, it didn’t.

It was just true.

And I was just eating my dinner.

Near the kitchen door, there was a crash.

A new server, Priya, 22, her very first night, had dropped a tray.

Six glasses.

She stood over them with her hands out in front of her like she could still catch them.

Nobody laughed.

I got up because I wanted to this time.

Not because I had to.

I walked over and knelt with her and helped pick up the pieces.

And when the floor was clean, I reached into my jacket pocket and put Gus’s wine key in her hand.

The plain kind.

The knife.

The worm.

The hinged lever.

Worn smooth at the edge where 17 years of my thumb had been.

“Anything you break,” I told her, “you learn to open.”

Then I went back to table one.

I sat down across from Gus.

And I finished the glass Teao had poured me.

The room went on without me.

Nobody at any table in it needed me to stand up.

If it had been your sister laughing, would you have poured the wine or put the bottle down?

I’d like to know how you’d have handled it.

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